Wow Ken, your wife is having an affair.. you honestly expect her to show you physical affection right now?
Sorry Ken, but that's almost selfish of you...
I know your wife cheated and it hurts a lot, but you are supposed to be setting an example of adulthood. I had to wait a VERY LONG TIME before I saw a postage stamp of a smile from my wife after her affair...
You can't honestly expect her to be affectionate when she just talked to him two days ago... It's blatant pursuit on your part.
From what I have read on this forum physical affection from a female WS in an affair is the LAST thing to return to the marriage... and it SHOULD be the last thing. It's a great test of YOUR maturity to have to wait...
Don't expect anything soon.. and if it does happen I would recommend refusing it anyways... MWD says much the same in her DR book too... not to rush reconciliation and to TAKE it SLOW
