Let's get some facts straight. The children are not that young and OW and OWH have no children if my memory serves me right.

No-one is saying one label is easier than the other- the point being made is that you keep looking for 'names' to the problem rather than solutions.

Oh yeah, and about FB- that's snooping and it hurts YOU but proves nothing.

You are all over the place passenger.

IMO Allen's route will alienate your H at the moment because he looks like he is looking for an excuse to leave. Your posts much earlier in the day made much more sense than your later ones.

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength