June, I really would love to see you start a thread in newcomers where you summarize your sitch and talk about what you've learned like Britt did. It gets across to people that even though sitches are different, there seem to be some commonalities among the LBS who turn things around and either reconcile or renew themselves in their lives. YOu have wise words to share and you can allow others to celebrate with you who aren't familiar with your story.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.