my IC reminded me that many people go to their graves and never take a deep look at their part in anything. even the way they phrase their part is blame sounding.

that said, sometimest they r owning part of it but just refuse to articulate that out loud. so how will you know?

that chocolate bunny sounds exhausting. the push pull gets exhausting.

seems like time to bring up ow in mc or quit it. maybe i'm wrong.

really hard to say. don't see how fighting about it is goign to change anything. but what's the point of mc while there is one? have you asked your ic this?