why expect different from CG, because she's a girl?
if so, that's a bit of a double standard and that suggests more work in that respect - she's just as good if not better than PDT or myself, her advice just as valid and she provides insight from a female perspective, something PDT, Steve, Gucci, myself and any other male user on this site can't provide.

And you are still working the angle of whether or not your wife will ever trust you again although she had the affair and you still don't get it, you are still proving yourself to someone who cheated on you, what's wrong with you? Why do you have that mindset?