New and Needing Advice (Long)

[DownNotOut...yet]

I hope the car issue is settled. She really, really should not be driving your car. It's your car right? She is not on the title, is that correct? She has no license and no insurance correct? Why would you, why would anyone expose themselves like that?

You can probably go on line and set the automatic payment to pull a certain amount (your half of the mortgage) from your account and the other half from hers.

Stand strong, calm, and confident. Do not antagonize or be petulant, just cool.

BTW tomorrow when she wants you to come by and pick her up for work, tell her, I leave THIS house for work at xxx time. You are welcome to join me, if indeed, you feel she is actually welcome to join you. If not, she can find her own ride. Don't go pick her up. She said you were "done". That would also mean you are "done" doing favors for her.