so H comes over today to swap with S and of course is on the phone as he walks in. great way to have the upper hand and avoid me. VEry rude as well, doesn't greet his son or me. Classic blocking move.

How am I supposed to be doing the rejecting when he always gets there first?

Still trying to focus on me - off to rehearsal.

Stuck on - how can H think most of the R problems are me and getting away from me is the answer? He literally hasn't looked at any of his contributions or personality traits that created the problems. I have owned my crappy behavior and he sits in his self righteous throne of invincibility. He is so sure he's right.

Part of me wants to smash that wall in MC and tell him everything he does to pull power and blind himself to the truth. The other part of me just wants to get away from the a$$hole as quickly as possible.


Me: 42
Him: 43

Two divorcees in a relationship