I think my only consequences right now that H cares about are financial. He's afraid of leaving, being on his own.
I don't necessarily think that having an MLC will be easier, in fact, I think it will be harder. I would rather it was just an affair, or rather, that he isn't doing anything along these lines. I'd rather this was just a fight - LOL. I don't know where you're getting that I'd rather it was anything easy, I know this is going to be hard. I went through 2 years of hard before and this is even harder than back then, just from the beginning. I'm in for the fight of my life just trying to hang on to any hope at all, just trying NOT to detach entirely and move on.
And I don't snoop, I did one time, and then he changed his passwords... so that doesn't hold either.
