this is what i'm concerned about as well. we did tell his oldest brother (once the D decision was made) who is already working on trying to "fix" the situation. i am concerned he is going to push H away. i haven't been saying much to bro-in-law cause i'm trying not to "control", but he is very concerned.
the religious leader is the only one that H has at least considered advice from somewhat (he moved in based on his advice, also the one who pushed him to make a decision since it wasn't "fair" to me). argh, i feel kind of stuck right now.
