Update: My wife has a prepaid cell phone and apparently used up her minutes with the OM two days ago (after charging it up with $25 only nine days ago). I confronted her about it yesterday and she says she doesn't plan to communicate with him more. She deleted him from her Facebook account and agreed to go with me to meet with the Pastor and his wife (who is a counselor). So we went and she spilled out her old complaints about me all over again and said she was never really in love with me and made a mistake marrying me and doesn't see how it can work. They tried to persuade her to give it one more try, to which she replied, "I tried for 12 years!" And they responded, "Yea, but Ken wasn't on board." It seems that they may have actually gotten through to her though, because this morning she made a nice breakfast and then deactivated her Facebook account. She still doesn't feel like being affectionate, but I'm hoping that will come with time.
My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.