We were together today to put the apartment on the market.
Still some resentment (on both sides but i can easily put mine behind me) but things went rather smoothly. When i asked her if she was considering that we could become friends she had some reservations. According to her it would be awkward if we were in a new relationship (with other people obviously) and then were to meet our exes for coffee or something. More than that she said there is no chance of us getting back together again (I wasn't asking for that and let her know it but maybe she read through me). I wasn't expecting her to say maybe in the future we could reconcile but it still hurt.
She did, however, say we could exchange emails and see where that leads us.
Some more negative points: she is now living alone but wouldn't tell me where. She is afraid of me due to my behavior and her parents now hate or at least dislike me.
However as the subjects changed to things other than our marriage and the way we treated each other we were able to talk very well.
She is going out to discos and seemed rather happy. Overall i think it looks rather bleak.
