That sounds like a very tough day. SIL definitely betrayed you and it's hard to be around someone who has treated you that way. I hope that your H appreciates what you are doing for his family by facilitating that.
How do you know that your H doesn't realize the work that needs to be done? Maybe he has a different idea of what the work is and the timing of it?
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
