So, today, after my suggestion, we spent the day with H's father and sister. After BiL's phonecall asking me for help, I told H that I thought his oppinion may be cruicial for how their D will turn out. Her L wants to go to court, he suggested a peaceful one. H agrees they should not goto court because if they do, witnesses will be called and things will be said that will be harmful.
I discreetely took the kids and went for a long walk to leave them to talk. I want no part in this.
Then H left to go to work and my kids wanted to stay with their cousins. I stayed, being polite and all with H's sister.I want to throw up from holding back for hours. Here I am, being nice to a woman who claimed to have me as her best friend, who never bothered to call and ask how I was the whole 3 years, who never even called when my dad had the operations, who I had been supporting through her mom's illness and death, her jealousy for her H, her problems with her 18yr old son, who I know chit chatted with Christine (OW), probably giving her advice how to get my H to commit to her...
I am telling you this is hard. And I dont care of the high road is what I should be taking -which I am anyway- but this is just too sick...
I kept wanting to ask her if she liked Ow or if she still lets her know what's going on with our life. Not to mention the way she treats her stbxH.
It's funny how some times you feel free of ...responsibility towards a person, you write them off. I am telling H I want limited contact with her. I am not obliged by anything to be anything but civil. And one of these days, she will be put in her place. I cant be anything but honest.
