Of course not. It's great to have a wife to keep one's house in order. But when someone says he doesn't want a wife, then it would seem necessary to let him do for himself.
And this addict stuff, ...come on. He may have natural "love" feelings that feel good going around in his system, but that is not the same thing as being addicted to heroin or cocaine. One can still function as a member of society while in love! Now, the possibility that he is an alcoholic may be a different story.
