The reason for the meeting is two-fold. First, she's upset bc I have not accepted the papers yet and she wants me to go sign for them. Second, living where I am is too far away for me to be active in taking care of the kids. Moving closer I will be able to make sure this is a joint situation. I've picked a place close enough to their school where I will be able to drop them off and pick them up from school.
I have consulted a L but not retained one yet. Neither has she to my knowledge.