4luv- I just read as many of your threads as I could find!
I hope that your FT guides you well. This is tricky-believing whether or not he has ended things with OW-and you do not want a false R. Be very firm- you are worth it!

Does he really have a sociopathic personality??? Or was that just someone's online diagnosis based on your posts?lol! (I hope)

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004