Kalni, I think I finally said to myself. I will choose this relationship again but if he messes with me and we have to end I WILL BE FINE! And that really settled my mind.
I decided I would have no regrets either. But defnitely I would be fine.
I totally get the "he is not good enough anymore for me" thought process. I mean who wants an @ss and seriously most of the WAS's acted like unreasonable morons. For a period of time at least.
I guess it depends on how much they are willing to do the hard work and effort that really determines things.... I think repairing a M definitely becomes a two way street one the recommitment is there, IMO.
Last edited by june72; 04/18/1002:50 PM.
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
