Originally Posted By: DaddyLongShanks
By the way TrentC, she needs to earn his trust - not the other way around.


I don't see it as an "either/or" propostion, actually. OIN's self-described controlling and emotionally abusive tendencies still need to be dealt with. She needs to be able to trust HIM as well.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."