SV3 I unfortunately know exactly how you feel. I'm going through the same thing right now. I didn't realize how much harder it would be once I got home.

You wan to just say forget the H or W I know I'm better than that, but it's harder to do than it is to say. There's days when you feel you can conquer the world, and there's days when the reality of the sitch hits you.

Your sitch and our sitch is very new yet, so we're unable to become the WAS just yet. You seem to be there at times and then revert back. Believe me we all know how that roller coaster goes.

Check out my thread when you get the chance to see how things are going or not going. Today is our R talk, so we'll see how things are after today.


Married 18
Me 39
W 37
D 15
D 5
Divorce Filed 8 April 2010
Beginning of Reconcile 8 Sept