This is probably a question which has been asked many times before, but do they know when they are reconnecting?
I have seen signs of reconnecting with friends and my family, extended family, our kids. He is asking S about pets and home. H started to text me in January, and then in March he withdrew for 3 weeks, after a spew, and didn't contact me at all until last week when he asked if he could come to the house to collect some things he wanted. (He has not been to the house since September) Any suggestion of how to play this when he comes?
I have read the article on Reconnection and he does seem to be following the pattern. I have seen touch and go's in the past. I heve no expectations. I would just like to know if anyone else has seen these sort of things happen.
