W still wants separation, need to DB more

[TrentC]

Its his wife and his house. She cheated him.

So what -- she doesn't even deserve basic courtesy? That's going to go a hell of a long way towards rebuilding trust and intimacy.

Its something I would do. If she is going to be angry at me for sleeping in my bed, because she cheated me and treats me like dirt - eventually I'm going to have enough.

Why is this all about you, all of a sudden? I could give a flying fig how you treat your wife and your relationship.

It's not your life and your wife we're talking about; what may work in your relationship may not in his.

OIN has made monumental efforts, and the level of discipline to do what he's doing is crazy.

I'm not up on his situation; all I know is, by his own admission, that whatever he's been doing for the past 5 or 6 weeks doesn't seem to be getting him anywhere. So I suggested changing methods.