Is it ok to look at him at times and wonder how the he!! did I end up here? I am not sure I can live with a "fractured" M no matter how good it sometimes feels...
Again, my sitch does not compare one bit to yours- yours was a million times harder. But yes, I think, once you know they are recommiting you start to question your own commitment. Is this person that put me through hell really worth it. Aren't I worth better than this? Can they really change and put forth the effort?
All the thoughts I had.... My H did put forth the effort so it pretty much stopped those negative thoughts.
I just feel like I can really give good input b/c I did not deal with an A. I think the whole trust things makes everything so very much harder. Really harder....
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
