FM, believe it or not I welcome the 2x4s, I need them too. Ah the devil may care persona somehow got killed especially after the D bomb. The username change believe it or not I don't really care about. I'd have to request it changed through one of the moderators here because I can't change it myself but I really don't pay attention to it, it's just a username...

I did spend sometime watching youtube videos on improving self esteem. It'll come back with time.

I sent STBXW an email about the DD arrangement because I felt it was necessary:

"Please let me know next time you're leaving DD with someone else especially if you're going to be out of town. There's no way for me to get in touch with DD if there's an emergency."

Two sentences, to the point. She can take it how she wants to. I've decided to not ignore her email about the house for sale, what does she expect me to say anyway? "thanks Ms. CNN, now my life is complete with that news"

Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again