Still a wayward... There is nothing wrong with accidentally appearing in the bed with your spouse, hell the women do it to us when they appear to be mad and appear in bed.
There is something wrong with it if she makes it clear that he's not welcome, which her body language and attitude seem to be conveying quite clearly.
This isn't the Penthouse Forums page -- if a woman wakes up and finds someone in her bed that she didn't invite then she's probably going to freak out, not give him come-hither eyes.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement