W still wants separation, need to DB more

[TrentC]

Did you sneak in the bed, so that when she wakes up your there. Goal of course is to guage a response. If she's the "happy" suprised, or kinda mad.

Based on what OIN has said so far, I don't think he'd get a happy reaction. So I wouldn't bother trying.

If OIN is trying to demonstrate being straightforward and not manipulative, "accidentally" appearing in her bed isn't going to go very far towards that end.

Just make a point of sleeping in the master bed. If and when she feels comfortable, she will join you -- and that gesture will be far less ambiguous.