Yes, FM, I agree, that is why I feel like I had it very lucky. My H could see my changes.... I don't know how it would have been if he moved out. He stayed b/c he did not want to be a part time dad...
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)