Just found out she already filed

[flowmom]

Make sure you get first right of refusal in the custody arrangement. If your dd is in childcare for more than x number of hours, the other parent has the option of taking the child. But you are GAL anyway tomorrow morning. It'll be OK

I know you can't just turn off your feelings, but oozing "nice guy" isn't what you want to project to your W right now. Sorry for the 2x4 but it's time for some 180s. Go back to the "devil may care" persona that briefly appeared in one of your threads