Just found out she already filed

[ImprovedRomeo]

FM, I swear sometimes I wish you, J, OF and several others here we all lived in the same house! life would be so much easier.

If you really were moving on with your life you wouldn't be offering to pay costo bills and things like that.

See I'm not sure about this part, as an example if one of my ex gf's from 13 years ago reappeared and needed some help I'd totally pay a $50 bill for her. Maybe it's just my nature but it's hard for me to see her suffer especially when I'm sure she's had to buy lots of things over again including stuff for DD even little things like toothpaste/brush/shampoos/PJs etc.

So far I haven't said anything R related to her, thanks to you guys for the 2x4s but I feel that's a personal victory for me - just the resisting part.

We are moving forward for ourselves and our children but we're only human, as I wrote elsewhere we can't be a light switch to turn ourselves on/off at will. Maybe a few years from now but not in a few weeks/months. But we'll keep on keeping on...

Thanks for the kudos! I went for a bike ride today too and noticed that unlike last time I didn't keel over on the way back which is mostly uphill, so I'm gaining some strength.

STBXW never replied to my email about DD wanting to see me today but just fwd'd me an email about the house across the street from me that's for sale. I won't but felt like saying 'are you buying it so we can neighbors?'

OK just talked to DD as I was typing this. So looks like STBXW decided to go for her bike training trip afterall and her roommate will be watching DD. This is the first time anyone's ever watched DD outside of her daycare, ever! It pisses me off because she didn't even bother to tell me about it like she can do wahtever with DD on the days she has her.