Yes NM, I feel like he should do the packing but don't trust him to do it...he would leave all the junkie junk that we keep but we don't know why!
When I was out working on the yard yesterday afternoon, neighbor and his drove by on their golf carts (small town, saves gas) and the son, stopped and also offered any help and to not hesitate to call! Dangit! I am going to miss these people if we have to move! The son, was a senior in HS when my S14 was in kindergarten! Always thought he was such a nice kid! Made me want to cry, not sad tears but like on Exteme Homemakeover tears!!!
H called D11 this morning and said he would pick her up and they'd go do something fun. He hooked up the log splitter that we share with someone else to take it to him in another town and then they went for ice cream and apparently his "work friend" called and asked about going on a bike ride so he drops D11 back off at home and goes to do that...think it might be a total of 3hrs spent with her. Also, he did not get the mower going like he said he would....
I was able to talk myself out of letting H's actions get me down today but am still sad about what he is doing to his kids... He did get his mail and had to have seen the boxes I packed but didn't take any of them...D11 said he found a new place to live so he can start taking his stuff anytime!!!!
Just wondering if you ride a bicycle side saddle like you would a horse when you are wearing a skirt? (for those who might not understand this last sentence, H's OW belongs to a religion that requires the women to wear skirts)
I was able to talk myself out of letting H's actions get me down today but am still sad about what he is doing to his kids...S14 is camping with the BS so D11 and I went to Applebys for dinner and rented a movie to watch!!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
