L&L, My wife told me we could "be friends" as well. But as I found out later, she said this simply to keep me from getting upset or emotional while in her presence.

About a month after the divorce she revised it to "We can never be friends!". That's when I went dark.

You have to remember that even after the divorce, they will play head games with you so do not believe everything she tells you.

Just food for thought.

Me:48
W:55
M:22
T:23
Bomb:19Nov09
S:15Jan10
D:11Feb10
EA:Confirmed on 20Apr10
Fast track to her divorcing me