And one more thing... the way your messages sound with all the chuckling going on in them... you are off balance. This isn't a game. People are advising you here to RESTORE your marriage NOT to execute petty revenge. Start thinking about what you are doing. If you are playing games now, stop. If you are done, stop. You didn't like losing your dignity did you? Well, don't take pleasure in watching her squirm.
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT