Sorry to highjack FM, Wellrr22, the real thing he would say over and over was: "I hate you, I don't even want to be friends with you. If I had friends that were friends with you I would try to avoid you..."
Nice, right?
Honestly, I had gotten quite naggy and bitchy but my hubby could not handle any discord it would freak him out big time. Seems like much of life had been bad for quite a while- bad pregnancies, cocky very sickly kids, money issues (my layoff, trying to work from home), my discontent with our sex life, no quality time together, serious serious lack of sleep, health issues for both of us, etc. Oh yeah my saying on a message board that with the way things are I would consider cheating someday maybe....
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
