Hope you can say "no" to your S. A time will probably come where things calm down a bit and it gets easier. In the meanwhile it might not be the best thing, even if it's what your S wants. hugs to you. Some days I really dread dealing with H.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
