I agree with old pilot. No contact is best. I remember my first birthday without my ex, he bought me a little white bear from the dollar store. That about summed up our relationship. Hang in there.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11