Think about that more now than ever. She should never have been driving your car and especially not now. Imagine she runs over a kid? You will be paying for that (in more ways than one) for the rest of your life. She should not drive that car at all ever. Even if you were on good term, you are nuts if you let her drive it.
Me 44 She 46 S13 D9 M18 T23 3 years DB'ing Successfully busted