Puppy - I agree. I never ran to someone else when this all began.
I assume now I'm in a holding pattern now. I'm focused on GAL and I'm cool and friendly with W.
I followed through on consequences and intel is out the window now. W doesn't use my computer anymore, won't be seen dead with cell phone and has any other evidence well hidden but at this point I don't think I need anything else.
Now we live in the same house and have almost no R. I told her to leave but she won't and this woman can be very stubborn. I know I should probably leave but I just can't bring myself to do that with D in the picture.
I love W but I'm not sure this is reparable.
I need to think of some more ways to GAL. I already work out regularly, sing in my band and have been doing some volunteering as well as spending as much time with D as I can. I find though that the weekends are the toughest.
M 40 W 39 D 4 M 5 years Bomb dropped 08/09 In house separation