Puppy - I agree. I never ran to someone else when this all began.

I assume now I'm in a holding pattern now. I'm focused on GAL and I'm cool and friendly with W.

I followed through on consequences and intel is out the window now. W doesn't use my computer anymore, won't be seen dead with cell phone and has any other evidence well hidden but at this point I don't think I need anything else.

Now we live in the same house and have almost no R. I told her to leave but she won't and this woman can be very stubborn. I know I should probably leave but I just can't bring myself to do that with D in the picture.

I love W but I'm not sure this is reparable.

I need to think of some more ways to GAL. I already work out regularly, sing in my band and have been doing some volunteering as well as spending as much time with D as I can. I find though that the weekends are the toughest.


M 40
W 39
D 4
M 5 years
Bomb dropped 08/09
In house separation