Why, why, why do I care? Because I think I'll always care.
CTH, it's only natural to care when we still have feelings for our WASs. You can't expect to be a light switch and turn your feelings off. I struggle with the same lack of detachment issues. Keeping yourself busy with the kids and GAL'ing helps mostly but not completely.
I try to remind myself that we all make choices in life some good and some bad and we're the ones that have to live with the consequences for the rest of our lives. So make sure the choices YOU make are the ones that you don't regret later on.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again