So true. it gets so that you can actually see the cycle coming at you.
there will be those, even on the boards, that will tell you that you should be somewhere besides where you are, you should be further along, you should feel more detached by now. To them I say--never "should" on yourself. these things take time, they can't be rushed, and to know that one is having a bad time and it will pass is invaluable. congratulations, gardener.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012