I agree w/ Whatnow- I know Ive read it alot in different sitches- once the LBS lets go and "moves on" the WAS will turn around at least to see if it's for real...
It happened in my sitch- the GALing and moving on though enabled me to meet new people...
Allen is right, spending the time on analyzing or interpreting conversations and "chatter" will distract you from really letting go...I know it's hard.
Keep doing what you're doing, working on yourself and being a great parent...you may learn you want a family but not WH.
Also Allen's take on the A dying out- def will happen, and especially for those reasons...
W's and BF appear to need CC asap...jealousy, lies, abuse, confusion, manipulation...etc...A's are sick associations (I won't say R b/c Allen hates that and I understand why)...but they are sick and they will not sustain themselves.
