Time for darkness.... (thread number 3)ears open

[james217]

You can't be accessible for her to continue to blame. This stage in the game, a couple of weeks might not be a bad idea.

If she continues to do it, she will direct it at someone else. She may learn the error, or may not.

she knows what she's done. It's just easier to point the finger at me. I'm willing to work things out. She'd rather run and avoid it. Even individual things we should be working on.

But like I said i'm no Wally Cleaver. I've done my fair share of damage.

Most of it untentional. most of it even unknowing. She know/knew alot of things I had issues with and nothing changed for months and then our dates were totally different.

I do think this talk about why she can't come back and why she won't come back is somewhat positive because she's at least thinking about coming back.

one of her favorite things to say is "you just expect me to come back running into your arms and everything is fixed. It won't be."

I state that if we address our issues and not avoid them and go to ic and mc we can make it.