Originally Posted By: DaddyLongShanks
James.

You can get it with her. However always know you are worthy, and if its not her there will be someone else who values you as you are.


Im not even thinking about dating. I have too manyh things I need to work on and the herpes is not something easy to discuss.

The thing is she has to be willing to work it out. WAW likes to avoid things alot. The issues are still there. They are just getting worse over time because she's not in IC and getting the help she needs.

She makes it seem like everyday I just unloaded on her. We'd have family talks maybe once or twice a week for a few hours.

But if you look at that list? I'm doing alot of things right only to find out later i'm doing them all wrong. I can't work on what she doesn't tell me when she's holding stuff in and then explodes and leaves. or when we talk and what i'm saying is bothering her she doesn't let me know.


waw 36 (spiritual covenant and common law marriage)me 32
together 13 mos. Bomb dropped march 2nd 2010

children SD (8) S (10) S (3)
need help from anyone with my sitch