I don't think for a moment bluestar meant for passenger to hand over crucial items such as dealing with the finances etc. I think she just meant that passengers H should be reponsible for the daily domestic duties- washing, cleaning feeding, running around of his own children and himself so passenger can spend more time getting herself some quality time and start becoming more detached.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
