Hello to all. My saga continues. I went to my lawyer who told me that I should let my wife file if she wants out of the marriage. In the mean time I went to New York this weekend to see some childhood friends and show my wife that I am moving on with my life. She asked if I was going to NYC and I said yes and she appeared sad. I did invite her to go with me a month ago but she said no. I have received phone calls from her sisters asking if I was okay and that they felt I was doing the right thing by going away. I do miss my wife and my son will be home from Iraq on leave in the next few weeks. She has not tried to contact me and I likewise have not called her. I hope this 180 works and somehow she tries to come closer to me. Time will tell but I do believe in this marriage program. If I could get my wife to agree; I would go to a meeting with Ms. Davis. I have so much faith in her program and the Lord. Well will see what happens and I do appreciate the responces. God Bless All. Bobby O