Its probably one of her family members that convinced her your generousity is manipulation. Thats what happened in my sitch, and over time she listened to their lies. From the way you describe her family, thats how they are.
You didn't screw up. One of them is going to have to betray her really badly for her to want to come home. Right now for them you are an easy target - hell you CANT EVEN DO RIGHT by this lady.
May as well GAL and don't sweat it, also remember ITS NOT YOUR FAULT.
THAT'S THE THING THEY HAVE BETRAYED HER BADLY. her sister stopped taking SD8 to school and cost her her job by not giving her the documents.
Heck today she was talking about leaving and I asked about her family. She said they didn't see her for a year and she won't be missed if she leaves again.
I have no clue what she's gonna do. I think E.A. O.M. is putting that in her head. or maybe she just thinks that.
Her family is pretty bad man. I know mine is perfect but her own mother would not take SD8 man. They said if she loses her then it's on her cause she needs to grow up. I somewhat agree but that's still your flesh and blood and an innocent child.
I think she's just been harboring anger and guilt and resentment and hurt and storing it up and finally unleashing it on me as well as whatever else is going on with her.
Her whole life has been that way. she told me she doesn't really trust any way. But she will trust others.
She takes everything good and if anything bad happens then BOOM. This is why i'm not coming back. You just did this.
I can't do anything right with her now. I think her family does have influence though.
Her sister tried to kiss me once. she asked if I had a brother I could set her up with.
I mean she was adamant about not coming back. Just kept saying it over nad over. Then she shrugged off our intimacy like it was nothing. The same thing with the dates.
I mean dude maybe I should just quit? I don't want to. But I'm really trying to detach go dark and not call. Everything i'm doing is just making things worse
waw 36 (spiritual covenant and common law marriage)me 32 together 13 mos. Bomb dropped march 2nd 2010
children SD (8) S (10) S (3) need help from anyone with my sitch
