T.H.A. i really really messed up. *sighs* I could really use some ecnouragement and I expect major two by fours. you guys were so right. I think I get it now. Maybe it's too late though
You may as well do a 180, complete with a disassociation and GAL with some old friends. People have been telling you to do this for a long time now. YOu haven't done anything wrong, its just she's not trying to hear or see it from you. Most of us have been in that position.
dude i "F" ed up. If you read was happened yesterday and today you'll see it. Really really bad. Heck I been messing up the entire time. I must have did some wrong. She has totally blown up on me and told me she is starting to hate me and have never hated anyone before in her life.
sorry for the thread jack T.H.A.
James217,
Your wife appears to be going the way of her family. You did what any loving husband would. Some of the DB techniques are not intuitive and go against logic, but have a better chance of working than the loving behaviors when they are far gone. Anyway don't sweat it, know that there are alot of women who want a loving man whose willing to put a lot of time and attention into them.
