Its probably one of her family members that convinced her your generousity is manipulation. Thats what happened in my sitch, and over time she listened to their lies. From the way you describe her family, thats how they are.
You didn't screw up. One of them is going to have to betray her really badly for her to want to come home. Right now for them you are an easy target - hell you CANT EVEN DO RIGHT by this lady.
May as well GAL and don't sweat it, also remember ITS NOT YOUR FAULT.
