Wife wants best of both worlds

[ClingingToHope]

DW, that cruise thing would be hard. My STBXW is going to Sturgis in August for some big motorcycle thing with her best friend. A bunch of her best friend's townie buddies go to it every year.

I'm hoping we're actually divorced by the time it happens because I think it would be better for me mentally if she was an exwife acting like an idiot.

At least she didn't put me in a position to cover for her so she could go. The girls are going to stay with the MIL for a week and I may go see them one night.

That actually is going to be funny. The last time MIL had both of them for more than a day was our 10th anniversary when we spent three days in Vegas. D7 is a lot more difficult to handle now.

I admire how you are handling things with the Ex. I still haven't found any proof of an OM and that's a shoe that will really hurt when it drops some day.