W still wants separation, need to DB more

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I have done so, 3 times already as a matter of fact. Laid beside in bed and slept with enough space between us where she could rest without disturbance.

When our sitch was at it's worse we slept in the same bed. It started with her ALWAYS turning her back toward me. Gradually it became where she felt comfortable enough top turned toward me. Now she does not.

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When my W came home from work we had planed to go up to the hospital but she was no longer in the mood. I had an arrangement of flowers sent up to the hospital room from the both of us. They were to be there when we arrived to visit but my W went to bed instead.

I had made lunch for the both of us, We both sat down and had lunch when she returned home from work. We watched TV during this time. Shortly after she went to bed.
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I work tonight and plan on picking her up and dropping her off from the parking lot to the front of her work place as I have been doing. Tomorrow evening is the memorial service which one of my goals was she would wear her ring to the service. This seems like a far fetch goal at this point.