Girls - the skirts rock, and yes they have built in compression shorts. They are almost exact to my tennis skirts, but hopefully not shorter!
Flo - that print Flyway one w/the blue juniper top rocks! Those skirts are a tad longer. That's better. But, I love the Nike ones. They are perfect not that I may have something resembling a waist-line... sit low but not like c-section scar low! LOL And, their compression shorts underneath are kind of flashy colors.
BBJ - The kids can party barge, too! Just sayin'!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
ok well I can beat you all EXh showed up last night to pick up kids and he brought a 12 pack of toilet paper! What a gift! Seems it stops up the head on his f'ing boat! Guess I can have FFG wipe his a$$ with that one!
Ok that's not nice, I'm sorry!
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
I'm with you Kalni, it stresses me out just reading about it!
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
hey, you probably won't like to hear this, but this is my thought.
your H never liked getting expensive stuff right? you had mentioned you used to always want something better, like the house or vacations, or whatever... then, he's buying something that he doesn't want, and something you really wanted.
even if he is buying it out of guilt. guilt can be a good thing when someone needs to be feeling guilty. of course under different circumstances, lets say before you hired the PI, I'm thinking you might have been happy.
I just wouldn't dwell on this gift too much.
I am interested in your plans to have an actual discussion with him about everything. I'm assuming before you make any dramatic decisions, you will be doing that first.
I also am curious...even if you found out the worst information you could hear, but you were told that in 1-2 years from now you guys would have the best R you've ever had, as a TRUE married couple...IF you made the choice to not give up. what would you want? because whatever has happened (or even happening) really doesn't matter. it's what can happen in the future that really counts.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
