good for you standing up, but next time if he's going to be angry and call you names, tell him your hanging up and he can call back when he can talk respectfully to you. for real, don't answer his questions when he is being rude and angry. too bad for him, I don't know of any exH's that will just show up unannounced.
the problem is, you had been letting him do that, so this is not unexpected IMHO for him to act like this. and yes, you are controlling the situation, but duh, this is what SHOULD happen. you need to control YOUR life, your not controlling his.
good job though
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
